Every single day is like whoa, wondering if you’d ever come back to me.
So what we did everything wrong? Y’know that it was really love actually.
Can I get some sympathy? Whoa, losing you is making a mess of me.
So what if you ended up gone? You know that it was really love actually.
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”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such asituation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.6] Number three is public restrooms.7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.———————————————————————————————————————————-POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow andarmpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told ourinstructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without usingmuch pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feellittle silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.——————————————————————————————————————————-FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/orpurse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may behiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
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”THROUGH A RAPIST’S EYES” (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not many people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world. THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONG…
FYI - Through a rapist’s eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid, or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who’s clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissors around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at is grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don’t have to worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn’t worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you’re not worth it.
———————————————————————————————————————————-
POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
can’t believe it is so cold out here, we’re in for a bad winter. Now that you’ve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up, you lose appeal as a target.
2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they’d leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you can’t beat them with strength but you can do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy’s parts it is extremely painful. You might think that you’ll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble, and he’s out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don’t dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but you’d feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
——————————————————————————————————————————-
FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ….
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will be some, where you will go “hmm I must remember that” After reading forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful in this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New Orleans : if a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away from you…. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won’t see you but everybody else will. This has saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON’T DO THIS! The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside the passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFORE RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driver’s side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked “for help” into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.
Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it’s better safe than sorry.
If u have a heart or compassion reblog this post.
‘Helping hands are better than Praying Lips’ – give us your helping hand.
REBLOG THIS AND LET EVERY GIRL KNOW
ATLEAST PEOPLES WILL KNOW WATS GOIN IN THIS WORLD.
So please reblog this….Your one reblog can Help to spread this information.
I hope you all will Reblog. Lets See how many of you really care for this.DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT NOT REBLOGGING THIS! IT COULD ACTUALLY SAVE A LIFE.
Read this, please
1. How long have you been self harming? Discuss why you started.
Three years. I started because it seemed like the best way out of my personal hell that was 7th grade
2. What part of your body is most affected by it?
My left arm is FUCKED.
3. What is your motivation to recover?
My ex.. Don’t tell him I said that.
4. Do you consider yourself “addicted”? why or why not?
I am. Because I crave it. A lot. & It makes me feel happy inside for a while.
5. What part of self harm do you dislike the most?
I hate ignorant people pointing it out.
6. What about it do you enjoy?
Blood. Hell yeah
7. list 10 activities that help you calm down.
Listening to music, singing, screaming, writing, reading, medicine, drugs, alcohol, my ex, my witty best friends.
8. What the most supportive thing anyone has said to you about self harm?
“you’re beautiful, don’t break something that’s so beautiful.”
9. Have you ever taken pictures of your wounds? Discuss.
I keep em to track my recovery.
10. How do you feel about your scars?
I love them. I think they’re perfect. I like the way they look & I love the way they feel when I run my fingers over them.
11. Strangest place (school, park, etc) you’ve ever injured yourself?
I scratched my wrist to shreds in my sleep last Saturday in a hotel room with 2 people sleeping next to me?
12. Where do you keep your ‘tools’? (Your room, in a box, disposed of them?)
Underwear drawer under my bed. In an old lunchbox. In a hidden compartment.
13. What is the biggest realization about self harm you’ve had?
It’s fucking terrible & I hate it.
14. Is there anyone you consider to be an inspiration in your recovery?
No. I’m not gonna idolize someone to be responsible for my recovery, I’m doing this shit all by my fucking self.
15. Do you visit any websites about self harm? If so, what are they?
No.
16. What advice would you give to someone about self harm?
Don’t do it. It’s the best way to destroy you. Physically and emotionally.
17. Do you know anyone else who injures themselves?
Almost all my friends.
18. Write a letter to the future (recovered) you.
Dear liz, congratufuckinglations. Don’t fucking relapse biotch.
19. List 5 reasons that recovery is worth it.
I’ll be good enough, less self consciousness at school, I can get a job, boys will like me, & I won’t have to explain my story all the time.
20. What is the most vivid memory you have of self harm.
I was in seventh grade. A bunch of girls were fucking up my life. They took everything I had inside of me. One day I was in my room & I found broken scissors. Without thinking I stabbed myself in the shoulder. It was bleeding for hours. I still have a tiny scar.
21. Have you tried to stop in the past? What are you doing differently this time?
I’ve tried to stop 10482739546869 times before. This time I’m in therapy.
22. Where do you feel the most calm?
With him.. Don’t tell him I said this.
23. What is your favorite inspirational quote?
Ain’t got one. Hm. Although I think it’s inspirational when people tell me to “die cunt” cuz then I get to prove em wrong.
24. What are some of your main triggers? Why?
My mom, cuz she’s intolerant of everything. Him, because he kills me. & school cuz I’m a fuck up.
25. Do you know any statistics about self harm?
No.
26. What is something that makes you the most happy?
Drugs.
27. Discuss any and all progress you have made.
Uh, I’m alive, and sober. Right now. That’s it.
28. What short-term goals do you have?
To not kill myself.
29. Do you follow any self-harm blogs?
Well yeah. Of course.
30. Post your favorite picture of yourself and write a positive message to look back on.
Eh I’ll do it later.
Just want to see how many of my followers actually reblog this.
IT’S OKAY
TO BE GAY
I WON’T MIND
IF YOU LIKE YOUR KIND
IT’S OKAY
TO BE GAY
I’D STILL LOVE YOU
AND OTHERS WILL TOO
people are fine by me.
everyone should reblog this
for the gifs XD
this is so….. .__.’ *reblogs*
ALL MY FOLLOWERS BETTER REBLOG THIS COS LIKE… MY BLOG IS ABOUT FIVE RAGING HOMOSEXUALS. SO.
All my partner said when he found out what I did was “oh great” THAT’S HOW YOU KNOW HE REALLY CARES ABOUT ME. god I swear, these past couple days he’s been a little fucking prick & he makes me feel like a fuck up. I thought partners were supposed to give a fuck about you & help you. I mean, if he texted me saying he took 50+ ibuprofen, I’d be there as best as I could. I’d even drive him to the fucking hospital if he needed me to. And I cant legally drive. He just kinda gave up on me and that’s one of the reasons that today, when I was sitting in the back of the math class, I was hoping that I would throw up blood cuz that means I finally would’ve done it. I wouldve finally done the job I set out to three years ago. It just kinda sucks that when someone makes you a promise to care about you & they don’t follow through, they’re not the one who has to feel the pain. You do. I really think that ever since my partner moved he’s just changed. And he’s blaming a lot of it on me like he always does to make me seem like the guilty one so he can sleep at night. Well I can barely ever sleep at night anymore & when I do, I have nightmares about how much I fucked everything up. I’m just dead inside. The only reason I’m alive right now is for my friends. I just can’t function anymore. I think today somewhere in the back of my mind I was trying to kill myself. But I dont know. All I know is that if I died then I wouldn’t care. All the things & people I fucked up wouldnt care either. It just sucks that my partner would be one of the people who didn’t care. I miss the days when he’d call me his little soldier. It made me feel like I have a purpose. Now he doesn’t say anything & I feel like I’m talking to a brick wall 99% of the time. I remember when I wrote him his song. It was called “Your soldier” but he doesn’t want it now. I’m gonna burn it in the back yard later. It talks about everything I fight off every day, to be a better person for him. Now I just don’t care cuz he doesn’t want me around anyway. He just disappears for days at a time & leaves me to drown. And I do feel like I’m drowning. Like I’m trapped in water under 8 feet of ice. I feel like he’s pulling me out to tie more weight to my feet & pushing me back in. Whatever I did to him, I just wanna say I’m sorry for. I didn’t mean to piss him off that bad to the point that he tortures me. I just need to see him. I need to give him his sweaters & shirts & pants & his jacket back. Along with the notes & pictures he’s given me. I need to tell him & show him how he’s killing me. In person. Maybe then he’ll stop…
